The Most Exciting Cruises If You’re Single and Ready to Mingle

Looking for romance or just a bit of fun at sea? Cruises can be the perfect place for it – but picking the right one really matters.

You’ll find all kinds of singles on board, from solo mums and dads cruising with their kids to groups of twenty-somethings ready for late nights and dancefloors. And yes, there are even clothing-optional ‘lifestyle cruises’ , where pineapples and flamingos mean exactly what you think.

So whether you’re travelling solo, bringing the kids, or rounding up your single mates, here’s how to choose the best cruises for meeting someone new.

Option One: Sexy Themed Cruises

Most ‘sexy cruises’ are actually swingers events. These are only open to couples or single women. So if you’re a single man or a woman looking to meet a single man, then this is probably not what you’re looking for!

If you’d like to know more, check out this guide to swingers cruises for all the details. They are typically advertised as ‘sexy’ rather than sex cruises, so that they don’t sound quite so debauched.

When considering a sexy theme cruise, be aware that the average age of the passengers may be over 50. So, unless you like the thought of seeing older couples naked in the buffet line, these cruises probably aren’t for you!

But are there sexy cruises for young, attractive singles? Absolutely! Temptation Cruises offers just that.

What to expect on a Temptation cruise:

• Fun pool parties
• Topless-optional areas
• VIP DJ performances
• Spicy theme nights
• Steamy workshops
• R-Rated Red Room
• All-inclusive drinks

Read more: The Spicy Secrets Of Temptation Cruises, Revealed!

On Temptation cruises, sex in public is not allowed, but what happens inside your own stateroom is up to you. You can probably even have sex on your balcony, if you wish.

And they’re no longer the only option. Killing Kittens also runs luxury lifestyle cruises designed for a more empowered, femme-led crowd, with an emphasis on connection, atmosphere, and playful freedom.

What to expect on a Killing Kittens cruise:

• Femme-led, inclusive crowd
• Elegant play spaces
• Sensual workshops and talks
• Upscale social events
• No pressure, no agenda
• All-inclusive food and drinks

Killing Kittens cruises are built around freedom and consent, with a focus on creating a respectful space where guests can connect, explore, or simply relax and enjoy the view.

If you want a sex cruise, these are probably the best option.

Option Two: Singles Cruises

Another option to consider if you want to meet other unattached people who are up for a good time is a singles cruise.

Not everyone on these ships will be part of the singles cruise, but there will be between 50 and 500 people who are travelling alone. Arranged by travel agents, singles cruises include hosted events like cocktail parties, breakfast meet-ups, games and even water slide races.

However, if you’re looking to hook up with no strings attached, these might not be ideal. Some people will be looking for love, and others will just want to make friends.

So, while you should never assume that everyone on a singles cruise is up for it, you’ll stand a better chance of meeting someone who wants to get down.

Some singles cruises are only open to certain age groups, like 20s and 30s, over-40s or over-50s. If you prefer to meet people your age, it would be wise to choose one of these options.

Some of these sailings will be singles-only cruises, but others will be singles events on a cruise that also has other passengers. Be careful not to chat up someone who has their partner on board!

For more information about singles cruises, check out my guide: Single Cruises: How They Work & Best Options.

Option Three: Music-Themed Cruises

If the idea of a dedicated singles cruise sounds a bit too much, there are some other themed cruises that might suit you. These can give you a good chance of meeting someone you like, but with no pressure.

There’s a whole host of music-themed cruises to choose from, covering every genre you can think of, including rock, pop, reggae and heavy metal. These cruises are like floating festivals – one key difference being that everyone’s had a shower (you would hope!).

On a music-themed cruise, you’ll be able to dance the night away to songs from your favourite artists, whether that be KISS or Kesha. And while you’re doing that, you’re sure to bump into other single people with the same musical tastes. Find out more by reading our list of music cruises.

Option Four: Regular Cruises

Sometimes the best cruises for singles are just regular cruises. And there are some cruise ships which are much better for meeting fellow single travellers than others.

The 10 Best Cruise Lines for Singles

Firstly, you’ll want to choose a cruise line that has other passengers in your age group. If you’re single and under 30 or 40, consider the following cruise lines which attract a younger crowd:

• Carnival
• Norwegian Cruise Line
• Virgin Voyages
• Royal Caribbean
• Celebrity Cruises

If you’re single and over 50, then these cruise lines are more suited to single seniors:

• Cunard
• Fred. Olsen
• Holland America Line
• P&O Cruises
• Saga

If you’re looking for a fun adults-only cruise, I highly recommend Virgin Voyages. This cruise line is unlike any other and offers the ideal place for younger singles to meet and have fun.

Carnival cruises also tend to attract a younger crowd, particularly on short weekend cruises and during the spring break season. You can read more about Carnival singles cruises here.

Norwegian Cruise Line and Carnival Cruise Line both offer singles mixers events. These can be a great place for single parents to get together at set times while their children are in the care of the kids’ club.

Read more: The Best Party Cruises For Fun & Nightlife

The Best Destinations for Singles

The next thing to think about is the destination. You’ll probably want to pick somewhere warm, as the combination of sunshine and swimwear will set you off on the right path.

If you’re in the US, then a cruise from Florida to the Bahamas is a great option. These short cruises tend to include a day at a private island, where you can spend the day at the beach with people from the ship.

If you live in the UK, then a short cruise with an overnight stop in Amsterdam would be a great option for people who like to have a good time. Consider booking an excursion with the cruise line as a way to get to know your fellow passengers better.

Shorter sailings, particularly weekend cruises, tend to attract more groups of friends and solo travellers. On a longer cruise, you’re likely to find more couples and families.

Try a Cruise Dating App

If you want to find people to hook up with on your cruise, it’s worth downloading the Cruise Ship Mingle app. This dating app has been specially developed for cruisers, so that you can message or chat with like-minded people before and during your cruise.

It’s Not Weird to Cruise Alone…

The single cruise market is growing fast. Most modern ships include dedicated single cabins for solo passengers, rather than asking them to pay a single supplement for a double stateroom. So don’t be put off by thinking it might be seen as weird, especially if you’re a single guy.

However, it tends to be more single women who travel alone, since it’s a safer option. Cruise ship staff are always on hand to provide assistance, and passengers are generally looking for a friendly atmosphere. Organised excursions are great for women who are worried about going ashore alone.

Most people make friends on cruise ships. Sitting at a large table for meals is a good way to get to know others over dinner. Some people find friends that they cruise with again many times in the future.

Suggested read: Here’s What Each Cruise Line Offers For Solos

Cruises and Sex

Cruise ships used to have a reputation for being a little wild for one-night stands. But they are now much more relaxed, with most ships welcoming families.

It’s certainly possible to get laid on a cruise ship. You can boost your chances by booking a fun party cruise or a speciality singles cruise, rather than a cruise ship that has a lot of couples and families on board.

Many, but not all, cruise ships sell condoms in the onboard shops. A few even offer the morning-after pill. But it’s always best to plan ahead and pack condoms or the pill to take with you, rather than rely on the onboard stores.

Be aware that any kind of romantic encounter between cruise ship workers and passengers is forbidden as part of the crew’s contracts. That’s not to say it never happens, but make sure you are careful if you hook up with a crew member, as they could lose their job. It’s best to try to meet other passengers.

To Sum Up

There are many different cruises for singles, just as there are many different types of people. If your main focus is a cruise to get laid, then the best singles cruise would be a sexy cruise such as one chartered by Temptation Cruises.

If you’d prefer a regular cruise with a chance of meeting someone you like, then look for short cruises to fun destinations like the Bahamas or Amsterdam. You’ll also want to check the cruise programme for details of any single meet-ups.

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