For many, cruising is about relaxation, exotic destinations, and indulgence. But for Bella and Jase, the creators of 4OURPLAY, their latest trip on a Temptation Cruise aboard Celebrity Summit was a world apart from traditional vacations.
This wasn’t just any cruise – it was an adults-only, spicy experience filled with themed parties, exclusive events, and an unexpected element that lifestyle cruisers take to a whole new level.
They shared their experienced on their YouTube channel to give a behind-the-scenes look at what really happens on a swingers’ cruise, from playrooms to pyjama parties and, of course, the ultimate tradition that puts regular cruisers to shame.
The one (surprising) thing that swingers do better: epic door decorations!
If you thought regular cruisers took door decorating seriously, wait until you see what happens on a swingers’ cruise!
As Bella explains, decorating your stateroom door is practically a rite of passage, with guests going all out to make their rooms stand out. Their door was covered in hilarious memes, pineapple-themed décor (a subtle nod to the lifestyle), and custom magnets.
“This year, Jase made all the memes himself, and they’re absolutely hilarious,” Bella shared. “We also added some pineapple decorations inside our room, just to keep the theme going.”
Beyond fun decorations, these creative displays serve another purpose – helping fellow cruisers identify who’s who and making it easier to connect with new friends.
Gifting & goodie bags
Another unique tradition? Goodie bags! Bella and Jase, who bring groups along on their cruises, put together custom swag bags for attendees who booked through them. This year’s bag included:
- A custom “Let’s Get Naughty” t-shirt
- A naughty girl bandana
- A fun magnet for door décor
- Personalised name necklaces, which are huge in the lifestyle community
“It’s always so fun seeing people wear our shirts around the ship,” Bella said. “The name necklaces are a huge hit every year—people love having that little touch of personalization.”
Themed parties: from PJs to togas
Each night brings a new theme, and Bella and Jase love to go all out. Their first-night theme was a pajama party, and while they didn’t record much that evening, they gave viewers a sneak peek at their outfits.
Later in the week, they transformed for the Toga Party, where Bella incorporated Shibari rope work into her look, elevating the classic toga into something far more unique.
“We love putting together creative outfits for theme nights,” Jase added. “It’s such a huge part of the cruise experience.”
A glimpse inside the playroom
While Bella and Jase couldn’t film inside the ship’s playrooms when they were in use (for obvious reasons), they did give viewers a quick glimpse of it on day one, before guests were in there.
For those unfamiliar, these exclusive spaces are designed for consenting adults looking to ‘explore and connect’.
With meetups, pool parties, specialty dining, and even a trip to the spa, Bella and Jase made the most of their time on the ship.
Whether it was sipping cocktails at Café Al Bacio, playing basketball on the top deck, or just enjoying quiet time in the sauna, they shared how they loved the mix of relaxation and adventure.
Final thoughts: would you ever be interested in a spicy cruise?
Swinger cruises like Temptation and Bliss are growing in popularity, and Bella and Jase’s experience shows exactly why.
Whether you’re in the lifestyle or just curious, these cruises offer a judgment-free, fun-filled environment where passengers can express themselves, meet like-minded people, and take themed events to a whole new level.
So, what do you think? Would you ever go on a spicy cruise? And how does your door decorating game compare to the pros? Let us know in the comments!
Or for more info, take a look at this list of the best cruises for swingers.
For more exclusive lifestyle insights, check out Bella and Jase’s channel, 4OURPLAY.
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Jenni Fielding is the founder of Cruise Mummy. She has worked in the cruise industry since 2015 and has taken over 30 cruises. Now, she helps over 1 million people per month to plan their perfect cruise holidays.
I would hate this type of cruise. Do the cruise companies advertise this is going on so you can avoid it? I feel sad for people who are lacking satisfaction in their relationship.
I think you’re becoming obsessed with ‘swingers’ on cruises. They must form a tiny percentage of passengers but there hardly seems to be a week that passes that you don’t do an article on this topic – perhaps it’s something that you may be interested in but I doubt if the vast majority of your readers will be.